Sunday, September 13, 2015
Almost, But Not Just Yet
Never before has the number of my birthday age been quite as "meaningful". Even 21. Even 40.
I know others who partied until in a coma @21. And covered mirrors in their homes @40. I never cared too much.
And, it's not that 69 scares me. It's just that I think 69 means some "planning" needs to be in place.
I need to be deciding how the next 30 (wink) years will be spent. In reality, it's only the next 20 if I go by heredity and my parents. And 20 goes by so quickly as we get older.
How do I want to spent these years?
Doing what I love to do, I hope. Not worrying about things I have no control over. Not doing things out of a sense of duty, rather than desire. It's a work in progress.
Yesterday, at work, was a lesson in being present. Not wanting to be (all 9 hours), but presenting a pleasant open invitation to customers to chat about gardening none the less. It was exhausting and exhilarating.
One moment stands out. I was out front chatting about bloom times with a customer and we noticed an older couple across the highway with a flat tire on their big truck. My customer said the police had stopped and then drove off. The wife had the instruction book out and the husband was trying to get the flat tire off. They were struggling. And traffic was zooming by--too close, I felt, and too fast.
Then a souped up low rider of a car passes them and pulls over. Out steps a guy (20's) with pants riding only the lower half of his rear end. Reed thin. (you could see the older couple was apprehensive) He walks over and takes control of the tire iron.... and as my customer reported to me--I had to go answer the phone --- takes the tire off and puts the new one on in about 10 seconds. I arrived as he was tightening the lug nuts. Then he said--"you're good" or something and hurried off to his car, waving off the offered cash from the elderly couple. He starts the car and cuts back over to our side of the road and roars off. My customer, a guy, says--"well, that just made my day--or more likely my year. What was an amazing instance of humanity"
Yes. It was.
My intuition says he was traveling north, saw them, turned around, came back to help and then u-turned in the road and went on his way north again.
Somehow, I don't think that young guy will be wondering how to live his life at 69. Like me. He already has a very good idea of how to live his life.